Who’s ready for some comfortable fall shoes? Our annual fall comfort shoe digest gives readers a taste of the seasonal client shopping experience and a clear sense of the trends. Although this year’s Fashionable Fall Comfort Shoe Guide leans a little more casual, we always have some work staples for you.

We all strive to go on vacation and pack less, myself included. There’s nothing worse than getting home from a trip and opening your suitcase to discover you only wore half of the items you brought. As we’re all fitting in our final trips of the summer (and I’m packing for a big trip), I decided we needed to do a summer vacation packing post! Keep reading to see our formula for packing light. Now, let’s see if I can follow my own advice; only time will tell!

The Nordstrom Anniversary Sale 2026 is here! Where has the year gone!? As a reminder, this super sale is full of new fall clothing, shoes, and accessories. This is an amazing chance to curate your cold-weather wardrobe at a limited-time discount. We put together 4 outfits to inspire your sale shopping. There is a style for everyone in our Nordstrom Anniversary Sale 2026 picks.

Lani was recently interviewed by Jennifer Barger for The Washington Post to weigh in on our current consumer culture and, along with other experts, give tips on how to save your clothes instead of buying new.

Fashionable, comfortable work shoes are not an oxymoron. I (Lani) always say I’m the only fashion stylist who won’t make you wear high heels. However, I will make you wear a cute flat that elongates your leg line and aligns with the silhouette of your pants or skirt. Get the shoe silhouette right, and your whole outfit will look and feel balanced. Get the shoe wrong, and your whole outfit looks off. Flats too flat? You may look like you are standing in a hole. It’s not a pretty vision, yet we see it a lot!

Do you know what to wear for this year’s Mother’s Day celebration? We assume we aren’t the only ones who have been getting spammed with Mother’s Day gift ideas for the last month. Sometimes, it’s just too much. Instead of adding to the noise, we thought we’d offer some Mother’s Day outfit inspiration.

We have put together three incredibly easy (and fun) ensembles to help you figure out what to wear for your Mother’s Day celebration. Use these ensembles as a jumping off point for creating your Mother’s Day style, or if you see something you love, links to purchase are provided!

This blog will help you find fresh, comfortable, and well-fitting tailored pants—i.e., the perfect work pant, stress-free! Shopping for the perfect work pants that fit and flatter can be overwhelming. Unwilling to endure the search for the “perfect” pair, many women have worn the same threadbare black pants to work for years. We see you, and we get it.

No, a comfortable blazer is not an oxymoron. What’s the secret to a comfortable women’s work blazer that flatters? Fabric with stretch so that it moves with you, but also structure so that it skims the body in the right places. And the correct length.

Many women think blazers are too formal or the fit too constricting. We say this is because they haven’t met the right blazer. Everyone looks and feels more put together in a jacket or blazer. No one feels (or looks) their best in a cardigan. You can carve that on Lani’s gravestone!

What makes the perfect work tote? The perfect work tote has some structure to it, is comfortable to carry, isn’t too heavy, and is perfectly functional (and beautiful) for you.

Do you know your power color?
This is the color you turn to when you want to feel your most confident and, of course, powerful. Inspiration is everywhere, not just in clothing!

Do you have a plan for Valentine’s Day? Somehow it’s already February. How did that happen? Valentine’s Day is sneaking up on us (as it often does), and we want to know: What are your plans? Maybe you have a weekend getaway planned. Or perhaps a fun day out. Maybe you don’t have anything planned at all, and that’s ok! We’ve got some fun shoppable ideas to help enhance your Valentine’s Day. Whether as a gift for yourself or someone else, we support your choice!

Lani and other stylists recently weighed in on some fashion “rules” to follow (or not follow) in The Washington Post. Check out the article for advice on which fashion formulas to follow and which ones to skip.

As we’re all settling into the new year, we thought we’d do a round-up of our personal favorite purchases of 2025. Normally, we like to let you all know which products we suggested that sold best, or which blog post was most viewed from the previous year. This post idea is a bit more fun and personal, though, right?

Here it is! Our final gift guide of the season, “Gift Ideas for Him.” Although we’re categorizing these gifts ‘for him,’ they are for anyone who might enjoy them. This year, we’ve focused on some cozy items, some special ideas for the traveller, and a few items to help ‘him’ make it through the work day with less stress in the New Year, and that’s something we could all use! So check out our favorite items this year and get shopping!

Gift Guide #2 is here, focusing on gift ideas for her. By “her,” we mean anyone you know who might like these gifts. Unfortunately, “Gifts for People” doesn’t work as a search title, and we want “people” to find our blog, so we are forced into gender stereotypes ;)! This year, we’ve focused on gift ideas for anyone who loves a good hobby, the constant traveller, and indulgent gifts. Be it for a friend, family member, co-worker, or party host, we have you covered!

Our first gift guide of the year is here! Gift ideas for kids is our most extensive gift guide this season, so we needed to bring it to you first. Whether you need a gift for your own kid, a friend, or a family member, we hope you’ll find the perfect gift here.

Barrel Jeans on a budget? Yes, please!

Here at RLS, we are busy preparing our upcoming holiday gift and style guides. However, we had to bring you a quick post about my favorite fall fashion steal. Admittedly, I’m more than a little obsessed with these barrel jeans on a budget and have been wearing them constantly. They are so cute, I couldn’t keep them to myself!

Are alternatives to shorts your most pressing fashion conundrum every summer? If so, you’re not alone. This blog originated many years ago out of my own aversion to shorts. But it is our readers who have made it one of the RLS blog’s most popular annual features.

It’s that time of year again—the 2025 Nordstrom Anniversary Sale is here! We’ve previewed the sale and selected our favorite items to help you navigate through the overwhelming options. Feel free to use our picks as a starting point for finding what you may need.

Could a dad in your life use a weekend wear upgrade this Father’s Day? This is your chance to gift the dads in your life the items you want them to wear on the weekend.

In theory, Mother’s Day is a day to celebrate mom, adding zero stress to her life. But what happens when your child or husband asks you the dreaded question, “What do you want for Mother’s Day?” as if you haven’t been thinking about 1 million other things in a day. Don’t worry! We’ve got you! Browse our Mother’s Day Gift Guide to have your gift list ready.

Would you know what to wear for a headshot? Never fear; the Real Life Style headshot team is here. Not only do we have the answer to what to wear for a headshot, but we also have a stress-free opportunity for you to get yours styled by our team.

January simultaneously flew by and lasted 100 days, which means… Valentine’s Day is right around the corner! I’ve focused on various charm necklaces for the past couple of years as the perfect gift. However, I expanded my suggested Valentine’s Day jewelry options this year to include some popular trends. You can gift one of these head-turning jewelry trends to yourself or another or forward this blog as a hint. Whether you celebrate Valentine’s Day, Galentine’s Day, or neither, I know you deserve something special this month!

Hi, I’m Sloane, the newest Real Life Style team member. Some of you have met me in person by this point. For those who mostly follow us online, I started with Lani and Kyle a little over a year ago and welcomed my first child, baby girl Jamison (James), in 2024. After seeing the photos of my Harry Potter-themed nursery, Lani insisted I share my creation with the community! So here it is, a specially curated nursery inspired by the “Noble and Most Ancient House of Black.”

It’s official: 2025’s Pantone Color of the Year is Pantone 17-1230, Mocha Mousse. Pantone describes the color as a hue that “nurtures us with its suggestion of the delectable qualities of chocolate and coffee, answering our desire for comfort.” It is a foundational color that is rich and warm, perfect for this time of year! (Mocha Mousse=Hot Chocolate?!) As we all reach into our closets for something warm and comfortable, let us help you turn this year’s Pantone Color of the Year into the perfect winter ensemble!

Every professional wardrobe needs these five must-have pieces for your work wardrobe. If you work in an office, this is a blog to which you should pay special attention. Take stock of your closet. Do you have all five of these work wardrobe must-haves? If not, start clicking!

Now that gift shopping is handled, it’s time for some holiday-style inspiration. Figuring out what to wear to all the holiday gatherings can add unnecessary stress this time of year. That’s where RLS comes in!

I know. You have all been on the edge of your seats waiting to see our Designers for Democracy looks. They’re finally here, just in time for ELECTION DAY!

We have waded through the thousands of types of jeans for women and made a concise list of the exact pairs we love right now by style. Each category contains a variable price range and different brand options to make it easy to find your perfect new pair of jeans!

If there is one thing I’m great at, it’s figuring out how to keep shoe clutter at bay in small spaces! Check out this article on The Washington Post with some great shoe storage advice from myself and a few other contributors.

Everywhere we look, trenches are in stores and online. And now that it’s finally fall trench coat weather, it’s time to buy a new and updated version of the wardrobe staple! Each brand has its version of the trend, which can be daunting when sifting through all the options. As always, we are here to help, having compiled our favorite and the most unique trench coat looks we’ve seen.

How are we prepping for tonight’s Presidential debate? By shopping, of course!

We love supporting a candidate by wearing their official merchandise, but the average campaign t-shirt or hat can be bland. Imagine our delight when Designers for Democracy dropped in the Harris/Walz official store! What is Designers for Democracy, you ask? This year, 16 designers have partnered with the Democratic presidential campaign to create unique, tasteful items that embody the campaign’s vision.

It’s never a wrong time for a beauty refresh, but we find the start of the school year and the beginning of fall to be the perfect time to settle into a new routine—that includes your fall beauty essentials routine! Around here, we’re always finding and trying new products. Sometimes, they make the cut and get a spot in our beauty routine; sometimes, they don’t. In this post, you’ll find some of our newest beauty essential discoveries and some of our tried and true favorites!

We’re back with a new guide to the best sneakers! Unlike last year’s all-white guide, this year’s features more color and a plethora of neutral tones.

Everyone’s favorite sale is here! The 2024 Nordstrom Anniversary Sale is open to the public through August 4! This sale is always popular because customers can access fall styles at a discount before they hit stores. We love the Nordstrom Anniversary Sale because it provides the best opportunity to restock on basics at a discount.

There’s nothing better than an easy, throw-on summer sandal, right? Here, we’ve rounded up a list of this year’s perfect summer sandals for you to choose from. We have options from slides to wedges without the overwhelming and time-consuming search through the internet to find them! Dress them up or dress them down, take them on vacation, or wear them to a summer event. We have an option for you!

It’s almost Father’s Day, and we’re here with this year’s Father’s Day Gift Guide. Our goal with these Father’s Day gifts is to elevate Dad in every way. Whether he needs a clothing style upgrade, some help in the kitchen, or a new skincare routine, check out our ideas for the best gifts for Dad this year!

Read the full article on WSJ.com, or click below to read the full excerpt.

Mother’s Day is always the holiday that sneaks up on us the most. This year, we’re not letting that happen! If leaving your Mother’s Day gift up to the family is too much of a gamble, feel free to share some of our great ideas with your partner, spouse, friend, or kid. A full day of rest is not included on this list, but comes highly recommended!

Read the full article on WSJ.com, or see below for an excerpt. “Whether you’re headed to the office or on vacation, a classic analog watch can be an easy way to elevate your look (and a useful tool for ensuring you get out the door on time). Although it’s possible to spend thousands on a status timepiece from a … Read more

Did anyone else have a thought of trying a “no buy January”? And then abandon that thought as quickly as I did? I blame it on Neiman Marcus and the winter fashion trends for 2024!

Charm necklaces are the perfect gift for Valentine’s Day! Self-gifted, given by a significant other, family member or friend, you are sure to find the perfect charm necklace from our list.

I was interviewed by The Washington Post for tips on how to choose the best quality garments for you and your budget. Read the entire article, or see below for some of my excerpts. Clothing pricing can be baffling, and it’s not always clear if a price tag correlates to a garment’s quality. And what … Read more

The most asked question of Real Life Style right now? The best shoes to wear with jeans. Yes, this blog will give you general answers to this sartorial challenge. But most importantly, you will find steps to follow to get your own personal answers.

It’s official, 2024’s Pantone Color of the Year is Pantone 13-1023, Peach Fuzz. According to Pantone’s description of the color, “Peach Fuzz captures our desire to nurture ourselves and others. It’s a velvety gentle peach tone whose all-embracing spirit enriches mind, body and soul.”

Happy New Year everyone! We are starting the year off with a round-up of products most clicked by our readers in 2023. Are you as curious as we were to know what you guys liked most?

Need ideas for easy holiday outfits? We have you covered! Take inspiration from the ideas in this blog to create your own look, or shop our holiday outfits.

Need to freshen up your makeup routine before the holiday season (quickly) approaches? The Real Life Style Beauty Products blog refresh will help you look your best at whatever dinner, party, or family event is on the horizon!

Have you been waiting for my edition of 5 things I want this fall after reading Kyle’s a few weeks ago? The wait is over. Not only am I giving you the 5 things I want, but also 5 things I’ve recently purchased. From fashion to home and beauty, I’ve narrowed down my edit to these fall style essentials.

Can you believe it’s almost time for Halloween already? Where has the year gone? I’ve decided to share what each member of my family has chosen their Halloween costume to be this year.

I’m loving the new styles and trends this season and couldn’t wait to share the 5 things I want this fall! This year I have 4 new wardrobe pieces on my list and one lifestyle item. The wardrobe pieces are items I’ve been eyeing since seeing the new trends emerge this season. The lifestyle item is more out of necessity than want, but also something everyone needs, so it made the list.

Marisol Martinez, is not just my original Quiet Luxury style icon. She is also a super talented artist and one of my best friends from Parsons School of Design.

We traveled to Lewes, Delaware for our annual summer family vacation this year.

I’ve compiled a few of my favorite lunch and school supplies, as well as some toys for kids of all ages (ahem, grownups too). Because what’s the point of life without some fresh fun?!

Our favorite Barbie™ style collabs are here! We have it all for you: fashion, accessories, drinkware, home furnishings, and toys.

Everyone’s favorite sale is here! The 2023 Nordstrom Anniversary Sale began early access for cardholders on July 6th and opens to the public on July 15th. This sale is always popular because one is able to access fall styles at a discount before they hit stores. We also love the Nordstrom Anniversary Sale as a great opportunity to restock on basics.

“People literally avoid life when they don’t have the correct, appropriate attire, and they don’t even know they are doing it . . . We have seen it so many times, the opportunities that come people’s way – it’s not that they weren’t there before, it’s that (people) are afraid to embrace life or go after their (opportunities) because they don’t have the right clothing or feel the part until they work with us.”

Doesn’t everyone say that this year’s last minute gift guide is the best one ever? Maybe so. But this year’s holiday gift guide may be the best one we’ve ever done, last minute or not. We want to give you details about so many items! However, the best use of your time at this late date is to stop reading, pull out your unfinished gift lists, and start clicking!

Why Target summer Must-Haves you ask? Isn’t Real Life Style a luxury style consulting company? Why, yes. However, we love a good deal as much as anyone.

Everyone’s favorite sale is here! The 2022 Nordstrom Anniversary Sale will begin early access for cardholders on July 6th and open to the public on July 15th. This sale is always popular because you are able to access fall styles at a discount before they hit stores. Plus, you can restock on basics.

I am so excited to be highlighting A Stone’s Throw jewelry, our favorite line of effortless jewelry made to stand the test of time. Do you remember my trip to Portland last summer? In my one-minute stop at designer Kimberly Stafford’s booth, I was able to see that she was designing jewelry RLS clients would love in their wardrobes.

Your favorite Spring Comfort Shoe Guide has arrived! We have included fan favorites from the blog, tried and true client favorites, plus new styles we can’t wait to try. Comfortable shoes don’t have to be boring!

Lani was super excited to talk about planning your style on one of her favorite podcasts, Best Laid Plans with Sarah Hart-Unger.

Talk about a last minute Mother’s Day Gift Guide this year! We’ve been even more inundated than usual because of my own unintentional gift.

From magenta to fuchsia and now Valentino Pink PP, I have an eternal love affair with the color pink.

Staying sane as a working mom has never been easy. But it was a really close call for many of us the last two years! What got me through?

Do you ever wonder, “Are these Instagram products worth buying?” We all do! So this week we bring you items we’ve bought off Instagram that have proven to be as good as advertised.

When you feel good in your current wardrobe, and even in the physical space of your closet, magic happens.

Do you wear stylish exercise clothing to workout? Or do you grab any old tee shirt and leggings from your overstuffed drawers? Nothing inspires you to exercise more—keeping that New Year’s resolution—than fresh, stylish exercise clothing.

Very Peri is Pantone’s Color of the Year for 2022.

What were our top five blog posts of 2021? How did the list surprise me this year? Keep reading to find out!

What makes the perfect New Year’s Eve outfit to end 2021? In other words, what should you wear to put the nail in the coffin of 2021?

I can’t be the only one especially sleep deprived this time of year! Make that all of this year. And last year. Therefore, I bring you a few of my favorite things that help me sleep more soundly and hope they help you too.

Unexpected color combos are inspiring us right now.
Mixing up your existing wardrobe into fresh combinations is a sustainable method to feeling like everything is new again.

We’re writing about cute sweat outfits this week, after six months of telling you to get out of your sweats! After all, it is the time of year to be warm and cozy.

Need some Thanksgiving style inspiration? People seem split this year, with some prizing comfort and others looking for an excuse to dress up again.

The combat boot is the article of footwear you can buy this season to update your entire wardrobe. Combat boots can be worn with both skirts, pants, and dresses—short or long. It is rare to find a shoe that can do all of these things.

Just like last year, outdoor socializing calls for some serious statement pieces. If you are like our personal styling clients, you are probably sick of what has been hanging in your closet for the last two years. Thank you, Kyle for rounding up this season’s trends for us!

What are street tights, and how do you wear them? Let’s start with the definition. Street tights are fashionable leggings you should wear out of the house.

Kyle and I recently realized that perhaps we needed to give everyone one pair of jeans to catapult them out of the skinny jeans rut.

Fall Comfort Shoes, our most popular blog of the season, is here! Now if only the weather would cooperate!

Are you as obsessed as I am with boucle and other cozy clothing and accessories? I keep stopping to pick up and pet the yummy, textured products in the store.

As a personal stylist, it is truly rewarding to watch a man go from feeling uncomfortable and wrinkled in his ho-hum business casual clothes, to stylish and relaxed in his new Workleisure wardrobe. I hope you find this blog helpful.

What is Workleisure, you ask? Workleisure are clothes that feel and act like exercise clothes, but look like work clothes. Think Athleisure, but for work.

This week I am sharing the details of my summer balcony makeover! hope you enjoy this home makeover tale.

Have you had your Zoom makeover? Just like every other person and business, Real Life Style has learned how to operate virtually over the last year. From the blog to our personal styling and corporate style presentation clients, all of our work can now be done online. But I was still struggling with my tech and Zoom environment until recently. Keep reading for what I tried, what worked, what didn’t, and where I am now.

Do you need a reminder that this summer is better than last summer? es, it is frustrating that some aspects of our lives seem to be closing down just as they were opening up. But things are still better than they were a year ago. I hope hearing how this summer is better than last summer for me, will help you realize the same for yours.

The most dangerous part of putting together this blog? Lani always wants to buy all of Kyle’s favorite products too!

Yes, it is ok to repeat outfits. On social media. On the world stage. At the playground. At school pick up. In the boardroom. At your Tuesday meeting.

I recently took a vacation filled with family adventures in Oregon. Naturally, I couldn’t wait to share them with you!

The 2021 Nordstrom Anniversary Sale is here! As your personal stylists, we are here with our annual reminders: don’t overconsume and do shop strategically!

What’s on my reading list?

My first “mommy sabbatical,” a respite from all parental and home responsibilities, was back at the end of February. How did this come about? After 10 days of quarantine with the kids by myself (false alarm!), while simultaneously trying to work and supervise homeschool, Mr. Real Life Style recognized I needed a respite.

Have you found a bathing suit trend you want to try this summer? I was euphoric when I heard that our neighborhood pool was going to be open this summer. Keep reading to see what Kyle and I will be wearing poolside this summer.

Struggling to find a wireless bra that flatters and provides the support you need? Read on!

Summer tees in fresh shapes, colors, and styles will make your wardrobe feel new and exciting with a minor investment.

Your favorite Spring Comfort Shoe Guide has arrived! We have included fan favorites from the blog, tried and true client favorites, plus new styles we can’t wait to try. Comfortable shoes don’t have to be boring! Hot pink lizard loafer anyone? Keep scrolling for our favorite spring comfort shoes and trends! Flats and Loafers Sick … Read more

Are you ready for the new Roaring Twenties?

Spring has arrived, and the weather is warming up. This is the perfect season to slip into a house dress. The best house dresses are easy to put on, cool and comfortable, and make you feel cute enough to actually leave the house if necessary.

Which closet organization tools are optional? Which ones are essential? Find out in this blog.

From Banana Republic’s True Hue’s Collection to Mented’s range of nail polishes, there is now a shade of nude for everyone. I hope you find yours.

Shop Black-owned brands with the convenience of a large retailer. Nordstrom, renowned for customer service, asked five Black creatives to choose designers and brands that speak to Black expression and perspectives.

I was a guest on one of my favorite parenting podcasts! Listen as I give fellow moms advice on how to take control of their wardrobes.

I had the wonderful opportunity to be interviewed by Sakina Iskendar, the stylish owner of Roman. It was so much fun playing dress up at one of my favorite boutiques!

Like most holidays now Valentine’s Day will look a little different so I partnered with Ally Shoes to highlight some fun ideas to celebrate the holiday. Whether you are with family or looking for a date night activity, we’ve got some fun ideas in store for you.

Why try to look good on Zoom? Because it will make you feel better about yourself, and your home office is still an office. Staring at ourselves on screen when we are happy with how we look is the ultimate mood booster—something we all can use about right now!

The best news to come out of 2020 was Kyle and Jack’s wedding! Their florist, Poppy Flowers, featured their backyard wedding on their blog.

I have had the pleasure of collaborating with Lori Mihalich-Levin of Mindful Return on this topic of postpartum fashion for the past few years. During the age of Covid-19 quarantine and working/schooling from home, I have once again updated my tips and outfit suggestions for women in between sizes.

Last week Lani wrote about her five tools to keep her New Year’s resolutions. My five stress reducing tools for the new year are meant to meet my biggest goal for 2021: to reduce stress and anxiety.

An annual theme for me (and many others!) is how to keep New Year’s resolutions. This week, I share the tools that are helping me, in the hopes that they inspire and help you keep your resolutions too.

Should you buy new clothes or press hold on your shopping while between sizes? For example, after pregnancy, or when you have gained a few pounds from stress? This is a question I hear so often from both new mamas and those who have gained weight from the stress of taking care of young children.

My wish for all of you this year is to learn how to wear your power! It is easy to get stuck in our existing wardrobes, especially when only our own family is seeing us most days.

As you will see from Molly and Kara’s self-told stories, learning how to wear your power improves how you see yourself.

2020’s most popular posts came as a bit of a surprise.

New Year’s Eve at home outfits can be just as, if not more, exciting than going out outfits.

What is a Coatigan you ask? A cross between a coat and a cardigan. Some are more coat. Some more cardigan.

Warm, stylish coats for outdoor gatherings are just as important as last week’s blog topic: Warm Layers for Outdoor Gatherings. Choose from vests, puffers, fleece, teddy coats, and even faux fur. I’ll be keeping warm in Uniqlo HeatTech base layers and the coat collection that fills almost our entire front hall closet :). Happy Shopping! … Read more

I shared my favorite productivity tips with Forbes, including how to get my kids to “class” on time while juggling client calls. Read more on Forbes or check out my answers here.

The CDC is warning us against gathering indoors as the weather gets colder. If you have the right warm layers for outdoor gatherings, we hope you won’t feel the need to go inside to see your loved ones!

Choose one of the three fashion formulas in the blog for a comfortable outfit for Thanksgiving 2020 and you can be comfortable, confident, and chic this holiday season.

Wonder Woman 1984 merchandise is here! We may have to wait until Christmas Day 2020 to see the new Wonder Woman movie, but we do not have to wait to shop Wonder Woman 1984 merchandise!

The most universal fashion item right now? The stylish face mask, of course. At RLS, we believe you should always make an effort to feel and look put-together, even while running errands or taking your kids to the park.

I spoke with the team behind Ally Shoes, one of my favorite and most comfortable shoe brands, to give some tips on finding your style and building your wardrobe.

The 2020 Fall Comfort Shoe Guide is intended to be the fall version of everything you love about the annual Spring Comfort Shoe Guide. And boy do you guys love that blog!

This week I have 5 steps you can follow to give yourself a COVID Closet Makeover. The blog will help you get your closet in working order for the strange times in which we are living. I’ll address the most important questions to ask yourself before starting your COVID Closet Makeover. What to edit? How to organize your closet? What to do with the items that don’t belong in your working closet? Lastly, I’ll leave you with the surefire method to utilize your existing wardrobe.

I usually save my little tidbits of fashion news as an extra bonus for my newsletter subscribers. This week however, I had more to share than would fit in the newsletter. So here you go, the first RLS Fashion News blog!

This week’s blog is super special. Kyle and Jack got married! Thank you Kyle for sharing how to have a beautiful, intimate, and safe wedding during Covid-19 (and so many pictures!) with the Real Life Style community.

This week’s blog will address the living strategies our family has adopted to get us through virtual/homeschool with two very active boys (1st and 3rd grades), while we work almost full time.

Four weeks into our first full virtual school year, I bring you a bevy of home learning strategies in this week’s blog. Part 1 of this series will detail what virtual school looks like for us, Part 2 will cover the living strategies we are employing.

You wish for the most stylish RBG and Vote tees to wear in the run up to this November’s election. We give them to you.

Here are a lot of the books I’ve read in 2020. I’m including the kids books that have either become quality-time reading for our family or have kept my kids enthralled (off-screen) for long periods of time. All books are links to purchase through one of the DC area Black-owned bookstores.

Although we had not spent a night outside of our home since February, or even eaten outside at a restaurant, we felt that the mental health benefits to our family would be worth the risks of the trip. Maine has consistently had one of the lowest rates of COVID-19 transmission and strict travel restrictions. We were not disappointed.

Let’s be honest, none of us knows exactly how this school year is going to shake out. That makes it quite difficult to figure out when we will find time to get our work done or how to set up a schedule for our children. I hope this blog will help you formulate your own plan and see the possibilities within your day.

This week, longtime friend, co-founder of the Manhattan-based organizing firm Pixies Did It, and author of Organize Your Way Kelly McMenamin advises on how to best organize our kids’ physical space for home school this semester.

I’m so excited to bring you this week’s blog detailing the virtual styling process I went through with Sarah Hart-Unger. You may know Sarah from her blogging exploits at www.TheShuBox.com.

Once again, RLS is here to focus your Nordstrom Anniversary Sale shopping. What’s the trick? Use the seven RLS Edit categories below to curate your own Nordstrom Anniversary Sale Wishlist.

I know, this title almost seems like an oxymoron, doesn’t it? I tried to get my eldest son to share just one silver lining from quarantine the other night. He refused to admit anything other than having me around more. The next day my youngest declared that Coronavirus time was the best because we got … Read more

Kyle and I are so excited to introduce All Day Alba’s Kerri Mesh Wrap Top, the perfect layering piece for every outfit this summer, as part of a new feature on the RLS blog. Keep reading for an exclusive RLS discount code!

I’ve gathered some of my favorite global prints for you to shop, mostly from brands you probably have not heard of previously. Do any of us need any more clothes in our wardrobes? Maybe not. Do we need beautiful prints that will make us happy and support women entrepreneurs and artisans? Always.

I am thrilled to announce that my home was featured on Design Mom‘s Living with Kids series.

Yes, this is a fashion blog, but it is a fashion blog for humans. Acknowledging others’ humanity and struggle is important to us at Real Life Style. I’ve compiled some of my writings into this blog for those of you not subscribed to the newsletter.

Listen to the podcast featuring Kyle talking about planning, and replanning, a wedding during the COVID-19 pandemic. Also, Lani discusses her own weddings and entrepreneurial journey.